18 Hours Ago
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Originally Posted by LindaSoG
Please people, leave me out of it.
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I'd just as soon forget this crap as anyone, but the fact is, the concept of a CPer posting porn in the Canteen, however soft, in the middle of a thread absolutely unrelated to that issue was brought up by one of
your former close buddies and compatriots from the Canteen. You have issues about it? Take it up with
them. I have no personal stake in any of that. They may, however.
No matter what the actual reason for your banning at FR or whatever you say about the reasons for it, the fact is you
did replace your Canteen pix with porn and actually registered here to rationalize it on this thread, of all things, as you have before rationalized supporting Snow Bunny's fraudulent activities.
And it would seem that on both issues you excuse yourself for your actions without shame or apology. Heck, Linda, on
another site where you are a member, you actually agreed with someone who replaced a graphic on his website hotlinked by another site he didn't like that putting porn in its place "works well too".
So I hope you'll excuse me for getting the impression that, barring anything more recently you may have posted about your shenanigans at the Canteen, this goes beyond your impulsive action in short-lived anger to replace service pix with porn, however "soft", at the Canteen several months before that post of yours at MightyRighty.
And I've yet to see anything from you anywhere reflecting that you regret the actions that caused what was supposed to be a service-focused daily thread on FR to turn into a greater problem than it had already become.
You state issues of bandwidth, but
please, woman...you could have simply left a "dead" link by removing all photos and it would've taken up the exact amount of bandwidth it's taking up now.
Were you thinking of the servicepeople and vets who came to that thread on a regular basis when you replaced your photos? I'd bet a ten-spot of my household pin money that you weren't.
What's more, I'd be willing to bet another ten spot on who you
were thinking of when you did it, and who you
are thinking of at this late date in signing up on this board after all this time to continue rationalizing the reasons you did it.
Perhaps they are the same reasons why some folks from the Canteen, including those who comprise the membership of ProudPatriots, rationalize treating folks who truly care about our servicepeople and our vets like
persona non grata when they asked reasonable questions about organizational legality to make certain that an org that represents servicepeople and vets is above reproach in this time of highly-energized rhetoric about this war and hard questions to those who give aid and comfort to our own military.
And those reasons, I strongly suspect, would be matters of ego and pride and powerplays and viewing their contributions as greater than that of respected, long-established organizations...and at times, of greater import than those who actually serve.
You could have left dead links for all your beefing about bandwidth costs if they were too great for you, or could've left your original photos up for the enjoyment of the servicepeople and vets who visited the Canteen. People have certainly made greater financial - nay,
personal - sacrifices than the price of extra bandwidth for military service people to enjoy photos on a website thread supposedly dedicated to their enjoyment and comfort.
But in all honesty, "unappeasable" and "kook" and "Bush-basher" that I'm made out to be, I've never felt the need to recoup my time or whatever expense I thought was due to me at FR or any damn where else by treating folks and visitors there whom I claimed to respect as targets for personal wrath over issues they had nothing to do with.
So even though CP and I have our big differences and I'm not "their kind of girl", when a current member of the Canteen is running a campaign against a former member like Diva for joining a "site that posts porn on the Canteen" (paraphrased) and there's only one person well-known in the history of FR for having done that...well, it's just a matter of being honest about who the real culprit was for that little prank.
And anyone who was truly repentant of such a stunt would not have any problems with it being brought up, because it's so easy to say "I was wrong" when one realizes one
is wrong.
It's only folks who rationalize and make excuses for themselves and attempt to pretend they never screwed up who have the toughest time hearing the mention of their more purulent past actions...which usually are left lying if said person of action actually is honest enough to admit when s/he is wrong. Sure, admitting such may preclude you from entering the political arena, but that's a good deal of the time only for folks who want to sell out anyway. Heh.
You'll find yourself much tougher and life much easier if you lay the blame where it belongs - on yourself who performed these pranks without apology and on those who bring it up because they were screwed by
someone and either just can't remember exactly whom or are in denial over the fact that it was one of their own.
You'd be surprised, perhaps, on how much better you feel and how much better you are respected, if not liked, all around if you are big enough to admit the God-honest truth that as a human being you're subject to some pretty rank feelings and actions and that not all of them are motivated or rationalized out of the purest and best that is in human nature.
No-one will criticize or will be able to mock you for the flaw of being a human being if you admit this. Everyone screws up in this life, and those who claim they haven't are lying to themselves and every other person they encounter anywhere.
And just to keep this thread on topic...the same goes for ProudPatriots, who could easily enough admit without losing face that they didn't know the legal ins and outs of starting a service org (my goodness, what high-rolling professionals
wouldn't any one of us need to sort all that federal and state tax and charity status stuff out!)
and also act to put a stop to the criticism if they'd just be forthcoming with the proper information about legal status and other issues that any donor would request of an organization that provides no material goods to the purchaser for money but ensures the money will go to a worthy mission elsewhere.
Either that, or they can produce the necessary and verifiable information proving they've always been and still are good to go legally on collecting donations from one group of folks to be slated for goods for another group of folks.
Any service org that balks at providing such information, no matter the personal feelings of whoever requests it towards those from whom he is requesting it, looks pretty damned shady.
I thought conservatives were supposed to be against even the
appearance of impropriety and bad faith with folks. Or is everyone here so geeked up on being "cool conservatives" and anonymous keyboard cowboy gunslingers on a personal vendetta with their exciting trash-talk and uninhibited vulgarity that they forgot that conservatives are supposed to stand for something classier and more important than that?